Dear Mange,

Nina swali ambalo linahusu maisha ya kawaida , mi nina umri wa miaka 28, namshukuru Mungu nimesoma kiasi siwezi kusema nimesoma saaana , nina degree moja tu, na diploma mbili, Mange sio kwamba nataka kujishaua au vipi, nataka nikupe msing wa swali langu,

Ninafanya Kazi at least najikimu katika maisha na naweza kusaidia wazazi wangu kidogo na ndugu japokuwa sio sana.

Mange nimekuwa nikipata mawazo sana hivi karibuni, Tangu nikiwa mdogo nimekuwa nikimuomba Mungu niishampata mwenzangu nndo tupange Mipango ya watoto na kuwa na familia kubwa vyovyote vile tutakavyotaka,

Lakini kitendo cha mimi kuwa sijaolewa hadi sasa, naonekana kama nimechelewa sana na uwezekano wa kkuja kuolewa tena ni mdogo sana,

Nimekuwa nikipata maswali si kutoka kwa wazazi tu hata watu wa nje , kama sijaolewa kwa nini sina mtoto mpaka umri huu?

Mange hayo maswali yamekuwa yakinitatiza kiasi kwamba naona kama maamuzi yangu labda si sahihi,

Sasa swali langu ni hili je umri sahihi  wa mwanamke kuolewa ni upi?
na kama mpaka umri huu sijajua nitaolewa na nani ni kosa

ni matumaini wana u-turn mtachnagia na si kutukana
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Viola   |2012-01-26 14:42:20 kwa mtazamo wangu, umri sahihi wa kuolewa ni kuanzia miaka 18. Lakini pia sio lazima sana kuolewa kama hujapata mwenza anayekufaa. kuna wasichana wengine hawapendi kuolewa, wanapata mtoto bila kuolewa. so wewe km ni mmoja wapo waweza kupata mtoto ukamlea. Pia mungu akijalia unaweza ukapata mwenza wako hata kama una miaka arobaini, mi naamini kama mtu anakupenda hatajali umri wako. Reply | Quote 8   5

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 14:56:56 Pole sana coz inaonekana wazee wamekutaiti na mpaka sasa huna partner.sasa hata wadau wakikutajia umri wa mwanamke kuolewa haikusaidii.ni maisha yako.ila usireject sana wanaume kwa kisa elimu.na mapenzi nayo hayachakachuliki.kuwa careful mana una dalili za kuwa desperate! Reply | Quote 4   5

Maarufu Mungu   |2012-01-26 14:58:43 Mie nina 28 lakini hata mchumba sina, sio wewe peke yako haya ni mambo ya kawaida !!Omba tu Mungu atakupa kwa wakati wake, kumbuka Mungu hawahishi wala hacheleweshi Reply | Quote 23   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 17:39:13 ni kweli ndugu zangu msivunjike moyo Mungu huwahisha kwa sababu na huchelewesha kwa sababu, mimi nimeolewa na umri wa miaka 34 na bikira na sasa nina watoto 2 wa 1-kike na mmoja kiume balance! na nimeolewa na nimezaa na mtu wa my dream ambaye sifa zake hawawezi kumfikia vi boy f uchwara vilivyokuwa vinanisarandia kila nikifkiria km ningeteleza na kuzaa na mmoja wao ningepotea vibaya mmno. hivyo nakuomba muwe na subira kidogo na mungu siku zote hamtupi mja wake atawapa wenu Inshallah. inabidi ufikirie pia mtoto wa kuzaa peke yako majukumu utayaweza akiumwa peke yako akiwa na matatizo akihitaji msaada peke yako unahitaji mwenza wa kukusaidia ulezi kwa njia moja au nyengine vile vile km utakuja kuolewa na mume mwengine sio wanaume wote wako tayari kulea mtoto wa mwanaume mwenzie! Reply | Quote 28   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 20:41:03 Kweli kabisa mdogo wangu mimi ni mzuri balaa sio kwamba najisifia lakini ndio ukweli lakini kila siku nilikuwa nasema lini nitaolewa na kuvaa shela nimechoka kusifiwa kila siku na pia nilikuwa nahisi labda wanaume wananiogopa lakini nilipofikisha miaka 28 alikuja mwanamme moja ofcini kwangu akaniambia wewendie mwanamke ninayetaka kuoa simji wala nini na amenioa mpaka sasa tuna miaka 9 ya ndoa. Reply | Quote 5   2

baby ya Mange   |2012-01-26 15:18:15 ungeuliza tu swali straight kuwa umri sahihi wa mwanamke kuolewa ni upi?, kuliko kujielezea ooh sijui ninakazi nimesoma kiasi sijasoma sana?sio kama najishaua...nina degree moja tu na sio diploma...too much blah blah kuolewa ni kama bahati wala hivyo ulivyojielezea sio sababu kabisa ya kufanya mtu uolewe au usiolewe so ungefupisha tu dhumuni la post yako,, watu kibao wameolewa wakiwa na umri zaidi yako na wengine umri chini yako kifupi mininavyoona kuolewa hakuna umri sahihi cha msingi ni mapenzi ya dhati,hujachelewa subiri siku yako itafika utampata mwenzi wako ataekuowa na utakaye zaa nae kama ulivyokuwa ukijiombea toka mtoto,, mwenyezi Mungu kamuandikia kila mtu na mwenzi wake so relax. Reply | Quote 16   34

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 21:24:30 Ndio kasoma mwache aseme wewe ukimbie shule 2008 ukaona kuzaa deal that's u wache wenye elim zao waringe lol mwone ata aibu una eti nenda straight forward kimekuuma eeh .. lea huyo mtoto wako mpeleke shule aje kukukomboa ...kazi kupiga majungu tuu Reply | Quote 18   5

baby ya Mange   |2012-01-27 11:16:05 hehhe look who is talking about majungu hehe  sijakataa kwamba asiringie elimu yake hata mwenye elimu ya std4 yuko huru kuringia elimu yake tatizo haikuwa na haja n what are u tryn to say???u better be wise woman atleast mimi nimejaliwa mtoto elimu ntaipata muda wowote kwahiyo kama unadhani unaniumiza kwa kuongelea kupata mtoto umechemsha saaana im a proud mummy and so thankful kwa mwanangu what a blessing???.... coz i know how it feels kwa watu wanaowish kupata mtoto na hawapati...shule hata uzeeni nitasoma elimu ni kama bahari haina mwisho so sijafika mwisho mama mie bado mdogo miaka yangu inaruhusu natumia akili kujibu situmii chuki wala nini mdau...unajingine?? Reply | Quote 6   4

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 17:57:48 Wish ungekua unatumia akili ya kujibu comment darasani... Sina chuki ila acha wenye diploma zao waringe ... sio swala la kufupisha habari kama ndefu usisome kwani umeomba :........ hugs to u Bt usiingilie wenye elim zao hujui ugum wake wewe... Reply | Quote 4   3

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 11:25:28 haihusu kuongelea personal life za mtu hasira zako kajinyonge na kamasi utajibeba mbona na wewe ulizalishwa ukakimbiwa sibora huyu kazalishwa na bwanaake yupo??tena ushukuru Mungu ata ulipata huyo mwanasesere akakuowa angekujua nani wewe utajibebaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Reply | Quote 3   1

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 02:42:40 tatizo ni kwamba, yeye yuko tayari kusubiri inavyoonekana.. lkn familia zetu za kiafrica si unajua tena, maswali mengi unaoewa lini, pressure za wazazi ..hakuna kitu uncomfotable kama kuulizwa hayo maswali mara kwa mara na wazazi. Inastress sana sometimes inakufanya hata ujihisi mambo mabaya, lkn wazee wetu na ndugu wangeacha hayo maswali, mtu asingekuja na haya maswali unless uwe desperate sana na ndoa. Reply | Quote 7   2

MTU WA MUNGU   |2012-01-27 03:18:42 KWAKO BABY YA MANGE SIJAONA KIBAYA AMBACHO HUYU BINTI AMEKIANDIKA KUHUSU ELIMU AMEFANYA VEMA ILI WACHANGIAJE WAJUE TATIZO LIKO WAPI ? SAA INGINE ELIMU INAWEZA IKAMFANYA MTU ASHINDWE KUOLEWA KWA SABABU WATU WANAMUOGOPA,SASA WEWE BILA HATA HURUMA NA JINSI ULIVYOMSWAHILI UNAANZA KUMPONDA HUYO BINTI NA INAWEZEKANA WEWE NI VILE VISICHANA VISIVYOPENDA KUSIKILIZA KWA MAKINI KABLA YA MTU KUMALIZA KUONGEA DADA NGOJA NIKWAMBIE KITU USIPENDE KUONGEA ONGEA SANA BILA KUSIKILIZA EBU ANGALIA AKO KA DESCENT LADY KAMEANDIKA NINI KIBAYA WEWE NI MJINGA HATA BIBLIA INASEMA MWANAMKE MPUMBAVU HUBOMOA NYUMBA YAKE MWENYEWE YAA NI USIWE UNAKURUPUKA BILA KUFIKIRI UMENIUDHI SANA NJOO ZANZIBAR NIKUPE KITCHEN PARTY UNAONEKANA HUMA ADABU NA UJAFUNDWA SIO LAZIMA KILA UNACHOKIONA UCHANGIE VINGINE SIO LAZIMA HUNA ADABU KABISA.SIO LAZIMA UCHANGIE NDIO NYIE WAVUNJA MOYO NA INAWEZEKANA UNA KAELEMENT KAUCHAWI NA MAPEPO ,NJOO UFANYIWE MAOMBI HUKU ZANZIBAR. Reply | Quote 14   4

baby ya Mange   |2012-01-27 11:02:16 huwezi kuona kwasababu na wewe ni mpumbavu vilevile maneno mengi mwenye mapepo sijui element za uchawi ni mama yako aliyekuzaa,baba yako aliyekulea,ndugu zako babu yako na bibi yako yani ukooo wenu woteee mpeleke kwenye maombi mama yako mimi ni mswahili 100 ya 100 tena kutoka morogoro sina hata chembe ya uzungu nakushangaaa,,,, ongea point usiongee pumba za kujirudia rudia nyoooo. Reply | Quote 4   6

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 11:28:39 UNAONGEA PUMBA TU NA WEWE SASA MAMBO YA BIBLIA OOH SIJUI MWANAMKE HUJENGA NYUMBA YANA HUSIANA NINI NA MAMBO UNAYOMWAMBIA BABY YA MANGE,AU UNATAKA TU UONEKANE UNAJUA BIBLIA NA WEWE HUNA JIPYA JUST SHUUUT UP.KANYEEEEE HUKO Reply | Quote 4   2

Anonymous   |2012-01-29 08:24:36 MPUMBAVU WEWE HUNA HATA ELIMU UNGEKUWA NA ELIMU USINGEONGEA MAMBO YA MAMA YANGU BABA YANGU AU NDUGU ZANGU WE CHIZI KABISA MSWAHILI HUYOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO ELIMU YENYEWE ZERO HATA ILO LA NNE HUJAFIKA ACHA WENYE ELIMU ZETU TUJISHEBEDUE NA TURINGE MAMAMA AHAHAHA HIZO DIPLOMA MBILI NA DEGREE AMESOMA SANA TENA SANA NA INAONEKANA SIO MSWAHILI, SAFI SANA MSOMI CHUKUA YALE YA MAANA AMBAYO WADAU WAMEKUSHAURI HAO VISONGOMBINGO WENGINE ACHANA NAO SHULE NDOGO HAO,ELIMU YA SHULE HAWANA WALA ELIMU YA DARASANI HAWANA HATA YA DUNIA WAMEKOSA,DOGO WE ENDELEA KUSOMA MBONA WENGINE TUNA MASTER NA TUMEANZA PHD NA TUMEOLEWA ELIMU SIO TATIZO TATIZO JE NI MUME WA NAMNA GANI UNAYEMTAKA USICHAGUE SANA MSHIRIKISHE MUNGU PIA.SIKU NJEMA Reply | Quote 0   1

Anonymous   |2012-01-29 08:26:27 UNGEKUWA SIO MSWAHILI USINGEONGEA MAMBO YA KANYEEEEE WEWE UNAONEKANA NI YULE MVUTA BANGI WA KIKE ACHA BANGI MAMA WEWE NI MWANAMKE HIZO STORI ZA KANYEEE NI ZA WAVUTA BANGI HAYA MAMAMAM WA MANZESE UNATISHA MAMA,MI SIKUWEZI WEWE WE MSWAHILI NTAKUWEZA WAPI? Reply | Quote 1   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-30 13:19:23 UR very right! angesema tu umri gani wa kuolewa mwanamke lakini sio kuanza sema ooo sijui nasaidia wazazi...ohhh sijui nina Masterz...Mbona hajasema KUMA yake ni Size gani..Ana Mavuzi malaini au kipilipili....Je ana maziwa Flati au yamesimama!!maana hizo ndo zinaendana na swali lake na sio mambo ya elemu au kusaidia wazazi! mimi nahisi ndio maana hapati bwana..Atakuwa anajishauwa sana..sasa wanaume wakisha piga hicho kipochi manyoya ndo hawarudi tena sababu ya majigambo ya hizo degree! JIPANGE MAMA. Reply | Quote 1   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 15:20:31 yaani uko na 28 unalalamika? je siye wa 38 tusemeje? uzuri siko bongo, so hizo pressure za ndugu sizipati. kuolewa ni bahati najua ya kwangu iko njiani, kwa hiyo na yako yaja...kwi kwi kwi! Reply | Quote 23   0

msema kweli   |2012-01-26 15:34:43 Hakuna umri sahihi wa mwanamke kuolewa wala kuzaa. Siku hizi maisha yamebadilika sana sio kama zamani. Chukua uamuzi ulio sahihi na utakaokupa furaha maishani. Usikimbilie kuolewa na mwanamme ambaye hautafurahia ndoa ila kuridhisha wazazi na watu wanaokuzunguka. Utajuta mdogo wangu. Kama umeandikiwa ndoa utaipata kwani hujui Mungu anakuepushia nini ndio maana hujaolewa hadi sasa. You are still young. Andaa maisha yako kwanza familia baadae. Reply | Quote 20   0

pamelii   |2012-01-26 15:39:30 pole sana mdogo wangu,unajua suala la kuolewa limebebwa saana na mitazamo tofauti ya jamii inayotuzunguka yaani ni social constraction ndio inatusumbua sisi waafrika lakini uhalisia ni tofauti kabisa. Mimi nakushauri fuata hisia za moyo wako na usipindishe malengo yako uliyojiwekea kwa sababu ya kuifurahisha jamii,utatufurahisha wangapi??? hebu fikiria vzr,relax enjoy your life,atakuja mchumba utafurahi. Reply | Quote 15   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 15:41:32 Don't let others spell life for you, kama plan to have kids once let it be, the trouble ya kuwa single mother is not a joke Wenzio tuko mid thirties not married no kids and life goes on Reply | Quote 12   2

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 15:50:08 kama umekua ukiwa na tabia ya kuchagua wanaume utsjuta kama wengi as wakifika miaka ya juu wanalia as hawatongozwi tena kama zamani je umeshakuwa na boyfi? au hata sasa hawakutafuti? u unaringa na masomo yako unataka vijana waliosoma kama wewe? au tajiri? ungejieleza zaidi twajua umesoma ila mwanamke ukipendwa hata kama hujasoma utaolewa tu. Reply | Quote 7   9

MTU WA MUNGU   |2012-01-27 03:28:07 HUO NI UJINGA HUYU MTU AMEJIELEZA NA ANATAKA KUSAIDIWA WASWAHILI MKOJO HAPO ELIMU INAHUSIANA NA NINI? Reply | Quote 5   1

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MTU WA MUNGU   |2012-01-27 03:28:43 safi hii ni nzuri Reply | Quote 1   1

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 15:55:33 what happened o Eucation is sexy wajameniiiiiiii mbavu zangu mie. Degree Moja na diploma mbili usexy wote huo ujapata mtu wa kuzaa nae Au kukuoa SMH Reply | Quote 7   14

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 11:18:53 hahahha hata kama unamasters kama hunabahati hunaaaa haloooo Reply | Quote 4   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 16:02:35 Ndg maisha ni yako si ya ndugu wala marafiki zako...usikubali watu wakakupa pressure mwisho wa siku ukajikuta unafanya maamuzi ambayo utakuja kuyajutia..na yakikuharibikia hutaona hata mmoja kuja kukusaidia sanasana wataishia kukuambia ndio maisha yalivyo. Afterall yo 28 n sayin umri umeenda...mmh dear yo still very young...fanya mambo yako taratibu na kwa nafasi...i got married when I was 27 it was 2010 na wala sijaregret coz naamini I found the right partner na lolote litakalokuwa wala sitolaumu mtu coz hakuna aliyenipressurize. Take yo tym mamie....bado uko una muda wa kutosha kama umeandikiwa kuolewa utaolewa tu hata kama utakuwa na miaka 40....All the best. TUNTU Reply | Quote 16   1

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 17:49:16 Aaah TUNTU...mbona leo hujasema "ni mimi Tuntu"...huwa inanifurahishaga sana hiyo...lol Pia, umeongea la maana sana,nimekupenda zaidi Reply | Quote 2   0

KUOLEWA   |2012-01-26 16:03:35   KWELI KUSOMA SN SIO MWISHO WA UJINGA. ALOKWAMBIA KUOLEWA KUNA UMRI NANI AU UMESIKIA WAPI LABDA??? UMRI UKIENDA UTAULIZWA KILA KITU,MASWALI COMMON UTAOA LINI,?UTAZAA LINI,?UNA JENGA LINI,?UNA KIWANJA,? KUKUUMIZA ZAIDI WANAMALIZIA WENZIO WOOOOOOOTE WENYE UMRI WAKO SASA HIVI WAMEOLEWA,WANA WATOTO,WAMEJENGA SIJUI UNA MPANGO GANI YANI WATOTO WA SIKU IZI BWANA UNATAKA NIFE NDO UZAE???UOLEWE???   INAUMA SN ILA JIBU NI MOJA TUUUUUUUUU TIME WILL TELL Reply | Quote 25   1

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 16:05:13 Mange, I know you mean well ila mwaya usije ukafungwa kwa kuchangisha watu kiholela? I mean what formal organisation/institution is the reciepient of this money. issues of accountability and use to the target group zaweza kukutia utatani. Weka mahesabu sawa. Chujmvi imeliwa sana nami ndio maana nakushauri kila saa! Reply | Quote 4   1

PUMBAVU   |2012-01-26 16:05:34 YOYOTE ATAEKUULIZA HASA KM MWANAMKE MWAMBIE NIGEE MUMEO NIZAE NAE Reply | Quote 21   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 18:33:56 Na awambie Education is sexy Reply | Quote 5   1

AKUU   |2012-01-26 16:13:24 miaka 28 unapata presha ya maswali km hayo????? nikwazababu marafiki zako wengi wameolewa na kuzaa au ndugu na yani familia kwa ujumla unataka uifuraishe??? binafsi mpk sasa sijaolewa na nina miaka 34. DIZAINI TAYARI UNA PRESHA SASA JIHAZARI UTALIKWAA JIBWANA HILO LENYE SURA MBILI UKISHANINGIA NDANI SASA Reply | Quote 13   1

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 18:01:18 am going to be 37 this year, hayo maswali nayapata sana but not from my family members ila from watu baki especially wa kazini, honestly, yananiboa sana lakini hayawezi nifanya nikakimbilia kuolewa au kuzaa just bcoz wananiuliza........... unajua its all in ur mind pia, kama limekukaa sana kichwani litakusumbua na utakuwa desperate, ila kama unaendelea na maisha yako kama kawaida, then utaona kawaida tu, after all, sio lazima kuolewa.....dont u have family members meaning dada au kama na wana watoto? hao watoto wao mbona wanakutosha sana tu? unless u aint close to ur sisters/brothers then u will see the gap/difference ya kutokuolewa au ya kuwa na watoto Reply | Quote 12   5

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 18:05:45 halafu mimi nasemaga kama mtu kweli anakujali hatakuuliza uliza maswali kama hayo maana anajua fika kuwa yatakuumiza...hao ndo wanawafanya wenzao wawe desperate, shenz zao kabisa, i hate it. mimi nimeolewa na nina mtoto ila siwezi kumuuliza mwenzangu "wewe lini?"...inanihusu nini kwani? Reply | Quote 22   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 16:49:47 Utaolewa ukiwa na miaka 37 na utazaa mtoto wako wa kwanza ukiwa na miaka 38 wa pili ukiwa na miaka 40. Na mumeo atakuwa na miaka 42 wakati anakuoa lakini mtajuana kupitia humu humu Uturn, keep on kuchunguriaring humu utampata mume kwani 2 years from now Mange ataanzisha dating section kutokana na uhitaji wa wana uturn watakaokuwa wanakutana kwenye chat room. Mwisho wa kutabiri. Kwa maelezo zaidi endelea kuvisit Uturn. Reply | Quote 9   1

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 17:13:21 Binti/mdada ondoa hofu na mashaka juu ya maisha yako ya kupata mwenza. Elimu uliyopata ikusaidie namna ya kuishi kwa furaha na amani. Usidanganyike kuwa ukiolewa utakuwa umejibu maswali ya watu wako wanaokuzubguka na kuuliza maswali sasa.maisha ni yako wewe.Utaolewa lakini utakuta kila siku unaishia kwenye mashitaka ya kuumizana na mumeo. Miaka 28 si ya kujikatyia tamaa kabisa kuwa umechelewa.Mungu amekupa uzima na afya na elimu umepata hayo ndio mambo muhimu zaidi. Kama umejaaliwa hayo basi la mume linakuja usikurupuke kudaka mwanaume utaumia sana. kazana na maisha na Mume wa uhakika atakuja, na wala sikushauri kabisa kujichukulia mimba ili uzae mtoto, na ujue ukifanya hivyo utakuwa umejifungia mlango wa kuolewa. Narudia tena kukuambia kuwa usirubuniwe na maswali ya watu juu ya maisha yako ambayo una maamuzi binafsi ukachukua jukumu la kuzaa mtoto bila ndoa.Mungu yupo nawe, muombe sana anakuandalia mtu wako,endelea kuv... Reply | Quote 9   1

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 17:17:59 Mimi ni mwanaume, Tafadhali wewe dada unayeomba ushauri weka contacts zako hapa nikuandikie ili tuwasiliane kwani na mimi nataka mwanamke wa kuoa kama kweli uko serious na suala lako,mimi niko tayari kuanza kufahamiana na wewe inawezekana Tukaivana na tukaoana mapema kabisa. Nasubiri contacts zako na nitafurahi kuanza mawasiliano nawe kwa kufahamiana zaidi.Mungu akuwezeshe kupata utatuzi wa suala lako, kama siyo mimi lakini yeyote utakayebahatika naye. Reply | Quote 13   0

Manka   |2012-01-26 17:33:27 ahsante baby ya mange,marufu mungu na anony after baby ya mange.............kwa kweli wewe dada nina marafiki wawili mmoja ni 37 na mwingine ni 35 hawajaolewa sasa wewe wa 28 utasema nini, mimmi mwenyewe nnimeolewa hivi karibuni and am 3, rafiki yangu mwingine aliolewa na 37,,,,,,,,,,nachotaka kusem akuolewa ni bahati na sio kila mwanamke ataolewa, usiwe desperate go on with your life omba Mungu na siku moja atatokea mtu ambaye Mungu amekuandalia. usumize kichwa wewe jichanganye and have an open mind. cheeeeeeeeeeeeeers Reply | Quote 8   1

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 17:34:14 usijali usiishi kwa pressure za watu mama,ishi maisha yako na amin kwamba kilicho chako kitakuwa tu hata ukiwa na 40..nashukuru sipo bongo kuishi kwa pressure ya kuolewa siipati,maana ukirudi kitaa mashosti wote wameolewa,home wakutolea mimacho mbona huolewi weeeeeeeeeeeee lazima utumbukiekuwa kwa mange kuomba ushauri so polee mama Reply | Quote 2   2

Manka   |2012-01-26 17:34:55 halafu ndoa sio za kukimbilia, enjoy your life as you are single................ Reply | Quote 3   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 18:37:37 Akha babu ndoa ni ya kukimbilia haswa zinaa mbaya! Wanaojitia sio ya kukimbilia ni kwajili bado wanasaka mume. Nani asietaka kuolewa dunia hii iliokuwa na uhaba wa wanaume? Reply | Quote 8   3

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 17:47:42 My dear dont allow your desperation to determine your fate.Ujiitumbukize tu kwa mtu ila mradi nawe umeolewa .Hata siku moja, sie sawa tuliolewa chini ya miaka 25 good for biological clock na kuzaa chini ya 35 yrs is considared ideal, but Mungu ndie mpangaji regardless of the medical issues na uzazi. lakini japo sijuti natamani ningepata mda hata wakujifahamu mie nani ,nataka nini msimamo wangu ni upi , just to find my voice and place in life and complete myself then akija mtu awe tu anacomplement na ikiwa shida ebo usijekufa ndani ati bure nawe umeolewa .Yashapitwa nawakati, haya ngojea nikampikie mme wangu utumwa huuuuu! Lol girl you are not missing anything !!!!!!! usimweleze mme wangu!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lol Reply | Quote 14   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 17:49:33 My dear dont allow your desperation to determine your fate.Ujiitumbukize tu kwa mtu ila mradi nawe umeolewa .Hata siku moja, sie sawa tuliolewa chini ya miaka 25 good for biological clock na kuzaa chini ya 35 yrs is considared ideal, but Mungu ndie mpangaji regardless of the medical issues na uzazi. lakini japo sijuti natamani ningepata mda hata wakujifahamu mie nani ,nataka nini msimamo wangu ni upi , just to find my voice and place in life and complete myself then akija mtu awe tu anacomplement na ikiwa shida ebo usijekufa ndani ati bure nawe umeolewa .Yashapitwa nawakati, haya ngojea nikampikie mme wangu utumwa huuuuu! Lol girl you are not missing anything !!!!!!! usimweleze mme wangu!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lol Reply | Quote 10   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 20:01:11 Thumbs up if ur a fellow 84er and still single! Lols Mama kuolewa si fashion, na hakung'ang'anizwi, if it happens it happens! Unajitafutia depression my sistoo! Take it easy, concentrate on making ur life as good and stable as it can be ndo when a brother comes along anaona hapa kweli nimepata jiko! Napita tu... Reply | Quote 6   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 20:10:58 Ur only as old as u feel! Nipeni tano basi wadau ; ) Reply | Quote 6   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-26 22:22:40 I THINK YOU SHOULD WAIT UNTIL YOU HAVE SOMEONE WHO YOU TRULY LOVE AND LOVES YOU BACK....DO NOT GET MARRIED JUST BECAUSE YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS THINKS YOUR OLD ...REMEMBER YOU WILL BE THE ONE LIVING WITH THE MEN NOT THEM... Reply | Quote 8   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 02:08:34 WEWE MBONA BADO SANA.hata 30 hujafika unaanza kuwaza. cha muhimu muombe Mungu akupe mume bora na sio kupaparikia kisa uolewemuda unakwenda...mbona utaikimbia ndoa Reply | Quote 2   0

Mimi   |2012-01-27 02:36:54 YN mimi kwakweli hayo maswali yanaumiza sana!mwengine atakwambia unasubiri shoka ndio uzae?kama wewe umejaaliwa shukuru Mungu ila kumbuka hayo maswali yanawaumiza wenzenu coz kila mtu anapend kuwa na familia Reply | Quote 4   0

KwaTariq.com   |2012-01-27 03:32:58 wala ucjar mamii me nimeolewa nikiwa na 34yrs na oficn kwetu nilikuwa narushwa vijembe na wanawake wenzangu kisa wao wameolewa me bado hadi pete za ndoa nilikuwa naringishiwa lkn me nikabakia na msimamo wangu mpaka mwaka jana ndo nikafunga ndoa.chakushangaza wale waiokimbilia kuolewa na waliokuwa wananirusha vijembe ndoa zao zishavunjika.so mamii ww vumilia muda wako ukifika utaolewa hata ukiwa na 40yrs Reply | Quote 9   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 03:44:34 AM 34 this year na sijaolewa, personally sina pressure nina kazi yangu nzuri na maisha yangu mazuri, Ila sasa vizabizabina haweshi kuniuliza lini naolewa, tena basi wengine hasbiyah llah wananiambia japo zaa tu, au olewa na mtu yeyote ujipatie mtoto-mweh ukishindana na tembo utakatika msamba (something like that) .Rafiki zangu wengi wameshaolewa wameshaachwa wengine wako chuo cha tatu (huh) am al saying is I still believe in LOVE, I want to fall inlove, and I want to experience it all……(kutongozwa natongozwa ila hamna chemistry) nataka mtu tunaweza kuwa na connection (you get me) Sasa, msinishushue wana u-turn….maana nyie…hamchelewi! Reply | Quote 16   1

Marichui   |2012-01-27 05:16:22 Mi nakupa Big Up yaani umeandika kama Unachukua kwangu am 34 & same situation like you Reply | Quote 2   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 04:20:55 NAOMBA USHAURI KWA WADAU. Nimekuwa mfuatiliaji mkubwa wa blog yako hii, nataraji nitapata msaada au ushauri. Mie ni mwanamke, tatizo langu napenda sanaaa kupita kiasi kutafuna mchele, yaani nimeathirika, ninakuwa na hamu nao kweli, nikipiga mswaki, nikila chakula nikishiba, kabla ya kulala lazima nitafune mchele yaani nina shikwa na kiu hasa. Naomba wanablog wanisaidie ili niepukane na hali hii nimejitahidi niache lakini nimeshindwa hata sijui madhara yake nini manake yatakuwa makubwa sana kwangu, kwani hata nikitoka nyumbani naweka kwenye mkoba wangu hata safarini ninao. Cha kusikitisha watu ninaofanya nao kazi na hata nyumbani ninapoishi wamejiunga na tabia yangu hii ya kutafuna mchele. Reply | Quote 2   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 08:28:09 Tatizo la kutafuna mchele sio wewe peke yako dear. mie nilikuwa natafuna mchele mpaka mume wangu akawa akikuta nimeuroweka sehemu anaumwaga. hiyo inatokana na kukosa madini fulani mwilini hasa ya chuma (iron). sasa wewe kula vyakula vyenye madini ya chuma kwa wingi. mulize daktari fulani atakwambia ni vyakula gani. tatizo la kutafuna mchele ni: 1. kuharibu meno..yani meno yanakatikakatika ukifika utuuzimani waweza jikuta huna jino ata moja. 2.mchele unaleta minyoo hata uuoshe vipi 3. kila unapokula unazidi kuondoa madini ya chuma yaliyopo mwilini na kujikuta unakuwa mchovu mara kwa mara..mie niliacha miezi michache tu ilopita, bado natamani lakini napoteza mawazo..All the best. Reply | Quote 3   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 04:36:16 usikate tamaa mpendwa wangu, me nilikuwa kwenye situation kama yako, lakini nilipofikia miaka 29 nikapata mchumba tena si bora mchumba nimepata the man of my dream, tukadate mwaka mmoja nilipofikisha miaka 30 tukafunga ndoa. Ila naelewa sana jinsi kipindi hicho cha mpito hasa ukishafikisha umri huo pressure unayopata kwa jamii jamani usipokuwa na moyo unaweza kujikuta umeparamia yoyote au umefanya maamuzi ambayo hukuyapanga na mwisho ni kujutia, yahitaji uvumilivu sana, wako yuko njiani tena karibu kuliko unavyozani Reply | Quote 4   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 05:10:16 mim nina ndugu yangu anamiaka miaka 37 anakazi nzuri hajaolewa na hana mtoto, zaman alikuwa anataniaga nimebaki sijaolewa mate zang wote wameolewa majiran wote wameolewa au wanawatoto, wazazi wakiaskia hivyo hata ile kumuuliza utaolewa lin hawaulizi tena maana anaongea kiutani Reply | Quote 1   1

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 05:16:34 mim nimzuri sio najisifia nilipata usumbufu sn kwenye teen ages, nikaona bora nizae kuondoa usumbufu, huwezi amin mpk nikiwa namimba ya 9month nilikuwa natongozwa sijui vile mimba yanguu ilikuwa haionekani... nikazaa niliwa na 20yrs nikaendelea na degree yangu, sikuwa naharaka yakuolewa thu nimetongozwa na wanaume zaidi ya 39 nawote walikuwa wanataka kunioa ila sikuona muoaji, nilisali mungu akanipa mume nimpendae, anaempenda mwanangu nimeolewa na miaka28 mwaka jana, hivyo usiwenaharaka sababu yakufurahisha wazazi. Reply | Quote 1   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 06:26:56 Hey mdogo wangu mimi dada yako (japokuwa hatufahaniani) nina miaka 40 na bado sijaolewa wala sina mtoto na wala sijawa'desparate', hivyo muamini Mungu ndiye mpangaji wa kila jambo maana nikiwa 'University' wakati huo nikiwa na miaka 23 nilipanga kuzaa watoto 2 kabla ya miaka 30 lakini yaliyotokea ktk relationship nilizokuwa nazo u can't believe maana nikiwa na miaka 28 nilikuwa na bf ambaye nilijua ndie atakuwa my husband 2 be unajua alinifanya nn? alitembea na rafiki yangu ambaye tayari alikuwa na mchumba wake ilibidi niachane naye na rafiki sikugombana nae kwa aibu zake alikata mguu wake kwetu baadaye niliambiwa waliachana na bwana alishakufa na HIV (200. Hivyo kuanzia wakati huo sijipi pressure nasubiri majaaliwa. Nakutakia kila la kheri, Mwenyeezi Mungu atakupa wako, inshaallah. Reply | Quote 8   0

MATEM   |2012-01-27 06:27:46 MTOTO KAPENDELEWA HUYU,HAJASHUSHULIWA,hAYA UMEELEWA MTOTO MZURI EEEH,HAYA PUNGUZA PRESSURE,...heeehheee baby ya mange kachambwajeee,pole shost,wapi judith nakumisijeee. :g ossip: Reply | Quote 0   1

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 06:28:20 ni kweli mdada watu wa pembeni wasikufanye ufanye mamamuzi usiyoyapenda , kuna watu wanapenda kuwa single mama ivyo, wao haina shida kuzaa lkn kama wewe unaamini kwenye familia ya wawli usichoke kusubiri aliye wako tena yule unaona mtawezana , hawa waosha vinywa achana nao , maana hawatakuwepo saa umefanya mistake ,enjoy your single life with your girlfriends , parting , talking ,instead of siting lonelywondering when will you get married , enjoy mydear your too young to worry Reply | Quote 2   2

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 08:35:38 mmmm unamdanganya mwenzio miaka 28 too young to worry? but ina depend yuko kona gani ya dunia kama ulaya bado bado kidooogo ila kwa bongo hiyo ni tia tia maji Reply | Quote 3   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 07:16:48 sijui hata kwa nini watu huwa wanauliza wanawake unaolewa lini as if wewe tu unaweza kuamua. Mara nyingi hata kama uko kwenye relationship huwezi tu kutangaza tu unaolewa hadi mwanaume atakapotaka yeye. The only thing a woman can do is wait mpaka pale utakapoombwa so its not up to a woman. Secondly kinakoniudhi hao hao wazazi utakuta walikukataza kuwa na bf wakasema soma pata kazi sawa usome upate kazi sikatai lakini wasitegemee kwamba magically itatokea kama ungeanaza kudate mapema tangu hiyo 18 years obviously mpaka sasa labda ungekuwa umeolewa. sasa umri wanaotaka wao uolewe ufike eti utaolewa it doesnt work that way these things are complicated. Tena most of the time they are selfish wanataka tu waonekane nao mtoto wao kaolewa nao wana wajukuu kwa vile marafiki zao tayari.au wanataka tu kucheza harusi Reply | Quote 8   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 07:47:39 kila mtu mungu amewekewa muda wake wa kuolewa na mwenza wake. cha msingi ni kufunga kwa maombi na kumtolea mungu sadaka atakujib fasta tu.nachoamini mume mwema hatafutwi anakuja mwenyewe mpk unashangaa. Reply | Quote 6   1

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 08:11:49 Mwayego tulizana..maisha ni Mungu anapanga...binadamu chockochoko haziishi maswali hayaishi as if wao wako perfect..UOLEWE USIOLEWE MASWALI YAPO TU LEARN TO LIVE PLEASING URSELF...as its imposible kufurahisha watu. napita tu............... Reply | Quote 7   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 08:47:46 HEE WE VIP? MIMI NIMEOLEWA NIKIWA NA UMRI WA AKA 39! Reply | Quote 3   0

migume gume   |2012-01-27 09:10:02 hahaha inaelekea wanawake wengi humu hamjaolewa na mnazeeka sasa dada ukiolewa mzee utakosa mengi, fanya uolewe wote ambao hamjaolewa ni MIGUBELII YA MJINI HAIWEZI FUGIKA IKATULIA, HESHIMA YA MWANAMKE KUOLEWA BIBI VIA: MTANICHAMBJE ILA MASSAGE SENT AND DELIVERED Reply | Quote 3   8

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 12:45:46 sema wewe ndizi mie muhogo ni mzizi....na hii isoolewa wakati umri umepita ndio ile mimbea. kutwa kupita katika majumba ya watu kuzua ya kuzua. kupigiana simu kuongelea ndoa za wenzao wakati wao wanakimbiza wanaume na wanaume wanazidi kuwakimbia tena mbio ndefu sana. mikunguru isofugika..mdau hakuchambi mtu yoyote hapa. Hapa unafagiliwa tu..umetoa point yenye PHD..akikuchamba mtu nibipu nitapitsha Reply | Quote 2   4

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 12:52:44 HEHHEHEHEEE HIYO MIGUBELII YA MJINI ISOFUGIKA IKATULIA..MACHO JUU JUU KA PANZI..BILA KUBADILISHA TABIA HATA HAYO MANDUMBA YENU HAYAPANDI NG'OOO. Reply | Quote 2   2

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 10:43:12 Eti nina miaka 34 na sina mtoto; eti unategemea watoto wa ndugu zako. Sikunyanyapai mdau uloandika hivyo ila nina ku alert kuwa mtoto si nguo kuwa utaomba mtu. Ngoja uwe kibibi uone hao watoto wa nduguzo kama watakupeleka chooni ukiugua Reply | Quote 5   5

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 11:50:39 ACHA KUTISHA WATU WANGAPI WANAZAA WATOTO HATA KUMI NA HAPATI MSAADA HATA KWA MMOJA, WANGAPI WANAZAA WATOTO WAVUTA BANGI WATUPU, WANGAPI WANAZAA WATOTO NA WANAKUJA KUWAUWA , WANGAPI WANAZAA WATOTO NA WANAKUJA KUFA WOOOTE KABLA HATA HUJAZEEKA ?? WANGAPI WANATUNZWA NA KUTHAMINIWA NA WATOTO WASIOWAZAA?? HIYO NI MIPANGO YA MUNGU SI UJANJA KUOLEWA NA SI BAHATI MBAYA KUTOOLEWA NA KUZAA Reply | Quote 6   1

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 11:24:42 dear hata usijipe mzigo wa mawazo, me mwenyewe nina 26 juzi kati tu nimeachana na mchumba wangu alikuwa first bf wangu, alinicheat so me nasubiri tutakaependana kiukweli ndo tuowane sio kukurupuka kuolewa tu,, naendelea na masomo yangu wac wac sina Reply | Quote 2   0

Genius   |2012-01-27 12:29:22 Wadau labda niwaambie kitu kimoja ni kwamba, sisi wanaume naweza kusema kwamba tunapenda sana na saa zingine huwa tunakuwa na nia ya kuwa na mke, I mean unaweza kuwa umekaa na mtu kwa na mmefahamiana kwa mda kidogo na ikafikia kwamba mmeplan baada ya mda fulani tuoane lakini tatizo nyinyi wanawake mnakuwaga na problem mkishagundua mnapendwa sana na familia inamjuwa mwanaume mnabadilika, attitude zinaanza kuwa za ajabu ajabu, mimi nasema ukweli sifichi kabisa, nilimpenda mwanamke mmoja na nilimpenda nilikuwa nina nia naye kuwa nae kwenye maisha yangu,ila kajiona mzuri na anafatwa na wanaume wengine then dharau nyingi sana heshima hamna, nimepata mwingine kabisa mzuri kumzidi nampenda ananipenda na ananijali na kunisikiliza anaonyesha upendo wa dhati na uzuri wake ameweka pembeni kabisa, tunapenda sana wawanawake wanaoonyesha wanajali ma... Reply | Quote 4   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 12:31:43 Aretha Franklin anapanga kuolewa na ana miaka 67...subiri ukifika 60 utapata vibabu kibao tulivyochoka kuvichuna.. Reply | Quote 2   1

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 12:43:59 There is no guarantee kwamba ukazaa basi uzeeni we wewe utasadika wangapi wanaishi wenywe watoto wameenda kutafuta maisha hata nauli ya kuja salimia shida ndi hela ya matunzo. Wengine wafa waacha wazazi wewe as a person you are responsible for your future life panga retirement yako save na invest ela yako walau uweze kulipa mtu wa kukuangalia usitegemee kabisa eti watoto nikizaa basi uzeeni guarantee not these days unless unazaa ishirini na mnashi hapo hapo kama kijiji cha ujamaa. Reply | Quote 7   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 12:51:18 KWA HUYO ANEYETAFUNA MCHELE JARIBU FATILI A KUNA DISORDER AMBAYO UNAPATA KUTOKA NA DEFECIENCY MWILINI ESP. IRON WENGINE WANATAMANI UDONGO AU CHAKI YA KUANDIKIA UBAONI NA MANY OTHER THINGS. JARIBU KUONGEZA IRON IN YOUR DIET NA PIA VITAMIN C ILI KUSAIDIA ABSORPTION OF IRON KWA LIKE A MONTH AND SEE. AU CHECK WITH UR DOC. Reply | Quote 1   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 13:29:25 The most important thing I can say just be happy in your life and always believe that when the right person comes, you are getting married. Nimeona wengi wakikurupuka na kuishia kujilaumu au miserable life kwa sababu tu ya umri au presha za wazazi na jamii. Its your life, be happy, embrace it and let them know you are working on it and pray. Kama unataka mtoto kabla ya ndo na iwe ni uamuzi wako na si presha za mume, boyefiend au jamii. I am in the same age, a man, not married but looking. Nimeanza kuone kuwa i will try get a kid before getting married but with someone that i see ana potential ya kuwa my wife, not just any girl. So, to summarize, usiache mtu akupangie maisha, iwe mzazi jamii au mpenzi, be wise about your decision hata kama ni ushauri au mipango na mpenzi wako ili usije ukajilaumu baadae. Live outside the box, and enjoy life, after all, life is too short. Reply | Quote 1   1

Anonymous   |2012-01-27 18:02:53 life is too short point nashangaa watu kujihami na maisha ya uzeeni ...ufike uzeeni uringe ? Madaktari wanagoma, maji hakuna, ukimwi umezagaa uanze tu kufika uzeeni enjoy life mtoto Reply | Quote 4   0

cheupe   |2012-01-28 07:09:43 We kaka wa 28 bado mdogo so unaweza endelea kutafuta the right person for u. Ila unavyotaka kuwahi kuzaa, umefirkiria maisha ya huyo mtoto au baadae utakuja kuoana na mzazi mwenzie? mama ni mlezi mzuri wa mtoto so kwa wewe mwanaume usikimbilie kuzaa kama hutataka kuoana na mzazi mwenzio. Dada wa mada, kuolewa ni majaliwa kutoka kwa MUNGU. Ukipata mtu ambaye unaona utaweza ishi naye katika maisha ya ndoa ndo ufanye uamuzi wa kuolewa else endelea kujenga maisha yako kwanza na sikushauri kukimbilia kuzaa kabla ya ndoa as malezi pia yanahitaji ushirikiano. Reply | Quote 2   0

MUTOTO WA MJINI   |2012-01-28 05:50:31 Wala usijali mwaya kama ipo ipo tuuu!! Reply | Quote 1   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-28 08:12:45 mi nashangaa sana waswahili kuuliza utaolewa lini hivi hao wazazi wako wanafikiri kila mwanamKe lazima aolewe ehhh huyo baba yako kama kang'ang'ana si akuoe yy wanakuvunja moyo bure kuolewa s ishu mi niliolewa nikaona mwanaume mshenzi nikamuacha wa kla sikusubiri aniache yeye maana kila siku maumivu mara arudi asubuhi mara alale huko huko kazi hataki nifanye,kusoma hataki nisome nikaona hii nini nitazeeka bure nashukuru alinipa madume mawili nakaa nayo na usingle wangu nafanya kazi na kuishi nitakavyo Reply | Quote 2   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-28 11:53:52 HIYO BABY YA MANGE UTUMBO MTUPU YAAANI IMEANGALIA TU COMMENT NIMEONA KUWA HUYO MWANAMKE NI MJINGA KULIKO WANAWAKE WOTE DUNIANI YAANI WE BABY YA MANGE MPUUUZI MNO PLS KUBALI WEWE NI MPUMBAVU SAAAANA? Reply | Quote 2   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-29 00:12:35 Dada utapata tu mume na watoto,mimi mwenyewe,nitapata tu,Nyanzala mama wa Nantes! Reply | Quote 1   0

Anonymous   |2012-01-29 15:06:23 |2012-01-26 17:39:13 umenigusa sana sana na umenena kweli tupu,ubarikiwe bidada Reply | Quote 1   0

Tatiana   |2012-01-30 07:53:19 Dear, Usiwe na mashaka, 'mke au mume mwema hutoka kwa Mungu' nimeolewa na miaka 33 na sasa nina baby m1na naenjoy maisha. Just mwombe Mungu na urelax Mama D Reply | Quote 1   0

Anonymous   |2012-02-01 05:40:59 tuliza dada.......... my cousin got married when she was 38. wait for the right person Reply | Quote 1   0

Gobore Rijali  - Mange naomba kitumbua!     |2012-02-01 10:17:40 Ninaomba nishushe suruali yangu nifungue zipu halafu nikuvue chupi yako mange ukiwa uchi nikukandamize na BORO langu tamu! Sema unataka US$ ngapi kwa biashara hii?, najua unajiuza kimtindo, nipe akaunti namba yako na jina la benki. Says, Gobore Rijali Reply | Quote 1   0

Anonymous   |2012-02-05 07:33:16 mmh wanawake wa kibongo bado tuna kasumba fulani hivi, mtu akikuzidi kidogo badala ya kujaribu kufind out amewezaje kufika hapo, wewe unamchukia, wakenya au wanageria wanasupportiana vibaya, ila wabongo utachambuliwa wee, mmh jamani maisha yanabadilika uswahili haujengi unabomoa tu, kwanini watu hamfocus kwenye tatizo, instead busy kwenye elimu, thats shows, honey am 35 and not in any hurry to get married, life is way too short kuishi na mwanaume only bcoz he wears trousers, noooo, na siwezi kumleta mtoto dunia kama sitaweza kumwangalia, so GOD help us to live in a reality, instead of who said what, who thinks what, its ur life ay end of of the day, Reply | Quote 0   0

Anonymous   |2012-02-07 00:08:54 hellow wana U-TURN mimi ni msichana mwenye umri wa 24 ninaboyfriend wangu tulikutana tangu 2007 tunapendana sana na kwa sasa mimi natafuta kazi ila mwenzangu anabiashara zake ila tatizo ni kwamba kila nikimwambia mwenzangu unampango gani na mimi wa kimaisha ananiambia ananipenda sana lakini swala la kuoa ni mpaka 2018 at the same time anataka tuishi pamoja bila kuoana na wala hataki kuchukua hatua zozote zile kama kutambulishana kwa wazazi n.k namimi nikiangalia kiukweli 2018 ni mbali sana natamani kuwa na familia as soon as possible apart from kuwa na familia pia naogopa nikimsubiri muda wote huo then aje kuniache even tho siombei hayo yatokee lakini maisha yanabadilika najiuliza itakuwaje? Swali langu ni kwamba je ni muache au nimsubirie mapaka wakati huo kwani ninampenda sana...Please nisaidie nifanyaje maana niko njia panda. Thankx all. Reply | Quote 0   0

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