hi u turners....

need a quck advise...

sometime back mange ali post some advise on how you could catch yourself a wonderful partner..well mengi watu walisema wengine walimponda but i decided to give it a try..just last friday after work i decided to treat myself to a drink at one of our best hotels around here, accompanied by a galfriend..well sitting next to us were a few people having a dinner meeting or so...ill cut the story short,one of them got attracted to me and we hooked up..nachoweza kusema zaidi ni kwamba i had one of the best weekends on earth mpaka narudi kazini jumatatu people could see the glow in me..unfortunately this guy has left, we still communicate but naumia..i do feel him but i never got the chance to tell him..we acted like long time lovers though non of us has broken it out to the other whether we are in love or not....i have found my feelings and i feel i should tell him ila naogopa maybe he was just having fun and has forgotten about it..je nimwambie au nisimwambie?please advise..

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Memoi'   |2010-07-27 18:14:24 What do you mean yo are in love?? how can you fall in love with someone over the weekend....tena kama ni mzungu wala usimwambie you are in love with him, yaani atakimbia mile 1000. it takes them long time to fall in love with someone, but once they do fall in love with you its for real. Trust me nimeolewa na mzungu. Reply | Quote 10   2

Anonymous   |2010-07-27 20:28:01 Sasa ushauri wa nini si ummwambie feelings zako??? mbona wasichana mnapenda kuzungusha mambo hivi?? kama ulivyotupa hii story na huyo mzungu mwambie hivyo hivyo ya moyoni mwako, hayo ndio mambo ya wazungu wanataka kusikia, zunguka zunguka na ushauri wa blogini utakua list kwenye one night stand yake. Mnataka wazungu wakati kujieleza feelings zenu hamuwezi kuwa muwazi dada hayo ndio mapenzi ya wazungu. B) Reply | Quote 3   1

Anonymous   |2010-07-27 18:15:57 Unaposema may be he was just having fun, does that mean umesha lala naye?? !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! if so that was qick!!! Reply | Quote 6   0

nay     |2010-07-29 12:14:50 hata mimi cjaelewa and then amesema the guy is gone,wapi,back to his country or after eating up ur pussy?did mange advace u to sleep with a man cku ya kwanza?hell no,hujafata vizuri ushahuri wa Mange maana ungefata ungekua nae mpaka sasa, Reply | Quote 0   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-27 18:26:26 :0 :0 :0 :0 :0 Reply | Quote 0   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-27 18:35:59 cool down shoga,take thngs slowly n patienty,a man can do all that a woman needs at da end utalia kilio cha mbwa,take tngs easy baby gal...kama yupo far na ww endelea kufahamiana nae thru contacts za kawaida time wil tell,inawezekana ni suden feeling yakuweuka baada ya muda ukaona kawaida au hat ausimsikie tenaa mhh hay aushauri wa mange nao umefanyiwa kazi..wazungu oyeeeee kama uyo wako bi dada ni mzungu Reply | Quote 0   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-27 18:51:23 Kama ulilala nae one night stand basi kiss him good bye, atakua amekuona u r such a cheap piece of rug na harudi tena na kama atarudi tena basi take nice and slow and don't you ever tell him that you love him, it is better to tell him that you like him and you want to know him better however, time will answer what the future holds. Bottom line punguza speed dada pia hakuna cha ushauri wa mange wala nini fortunate plays huge part is this love scene trust me cause i've been there and done that!! Goo Luck shwarty Reply | Quote 4   4

Anonymous   |2010-07-27 18:56:00 duh,kweli mademu wakibongo mmeamua kuwa gold diggers hadi mnawinda,what alovelly story,play hard mama utashinda lakini angalia usija ukaishia one night stand...hahahaaaaa go bongo girls.......msije mkajikuta mnajiweka kifungoni bila kujijua.. Reply | Quote 3   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-27 20:01:31 mhh mange ule umbea wa facebook mbona umeutoa? Reply | Quote 1   1

Anonymous   |2010-07-28 08:02:17 na mie nimeshangaa leo siuoni. eti mange, daktari amekushauri kabla yule dada wa facebook nae hajajibu mashambulizi kwako? unalo bidada, siku nyingine fikiri mara mbilimbili. Reply | Quote 0   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-27 20:36:46 jamani, dadangu mwache huyo mkaka akutafute. usimwambie utaaibika kweli, huyo alikuwa tu ni wa one night stand au fling kwa lugha nyingine, lakini bahati ni yako kwa hiyo endelea naye Reply | Quote 3   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-27 21:35:02 DESPAAAAAAAAAAAARATE. Reply | Quote 2   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-27 21:37:04 okay, u still communicate ryt? in that case ask him when his comming down next, say you would love to see him again and if his intrested in you then he will come down either for his busines or to see you and you guys go out for a meal or so, dont rush things, if his into you then just enjoy urselves at the mean time other wise if u go ahead and tell him that u love him? atafikiri wats wrong with this woman, u know try to kinder play hard to get ili akutake even more. And kama umelala nae on night stand then just jitetee kua i loved that night but sorry i was kinder drunk or havent slept with someone as attractive as you are and it was kinder hard to let go of you and shit like(or make something up). GOOD LUCK. been there done that (it helped) Reply | Quote 5   1

Kipapa   |2010-07-27 22:46:57 Jamani mange please mrudishe LULU CLARA humu tumchambe mm sipati usingizi kabisa nataka kumaliza kinyongo ña wewe mdau acha kua penda penda utaishia pabaya Reply | Quote 0   5

Anonymous   |2010-07-28 08:04:05 UNAMCHUZA MANGE WAKATI WEWE UNATUMIA KIVULI. Reply | Quote 0   0

Katarine   |2010-07-28 02:56:11 NAOMBA UKONFIRM ULILALA NAE ?? HOW OLD ARE YOU THEN TUNAWEZA KUKUSHAURI Reply | Quote 2   3

Steph   |2010-07-28 05:49:56 There's one thing i'll never understand,kwa nn watu wanakua wepesi sana kujudge mtu without looking at the 2 sides of the coin??And who said its wrong to sleep with someone on the first day you meet??Kama you got feelings for each other then go ahead and make the most of it,just don't live to regret it later coz trust me a lost chance never comes back.Well the 2 of you hit it off real quick and you had a wonderful time but be warned,speak for yourself,huyu jamaa humjui,you only spent the weekend with him so don't lay your judgement on that.My advice,don't rush it gal,take your time,get to know each other and with time you'll know if you truly in love with him ama you are simply infatuated with him.Most of us confuse love with lust ama infatuation,you can't really fall in love with someone the first time you meet,i kol it lust which eventually grows into love ama hate,wateva!!!Just take it a step at a time,he ain't the only ... Reply | Quote 3   1

Anonymous   |2010-07-28 06:13:16 That was purely a one night stand..keep in touch with him if is interested if he is not don't push it...if he enjoyed being with you like the way he enjoyed being with him believe me darling he will be back...but don't be too desperate play hard to get kidogo Reply | Quote 1   0

mamu   |2010-07-28 06:14:19 MWAMBIEEE USIMFICHEEE BADO ROBO SAAAAAA Reply | Quote 1   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-28 08:09:43 wanawake wengine cheap kweli,wanawake mna ndoto za ajabu Reply | Quote 1   0

lisa   |2010-07-28 08:14:12 this is very simple, men go on business trips across the globe, they do their business and usiku, they get kinda lonely.sasa some go out to look for "extra curricular activities" and so on. wewe tayari ulikua katika hoteli yake, business kesha maliza,toto la kibongo linameremeta infront of her, wat da hell, ofcoz he made a move..isingekua wewe angekua mwingine..im sure u get the drift hamna cha love wala nini..the guy showed u a gud time, in a five star hotel, and im sure u used all the facilities that a 5 star hotel has to offer. to him, he was killing time and spicing up his work trip..PERIOD. ningekushauri to continue keeping in touch, lightly.kama he liked u that much atarudi tena tu..trust me on this.when a guys realy likes u atafanya juu chini kurudi tena bongo, again and again..i have evidence of this so just take it that it was a great weekend,thats it..whatever happens afta that,he shud make it happen, k... Reply | Quote 4   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-28 09:20:35 na akirudi tena anakula tundi halafu anaondoka hivyo hivyo mpaka tundi likichoka yeye huyooooooo tehetehtehtehtehe kha Reply | Quote 0   0

Anonymous  - re:   |2010-07-28 15:30:29 haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa hhhhhhhhaaa!Yaaani umenimaliza...nafwa kwa kichecko!! Reply | Quote 0   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-28 18:12:03 cheka mwanawane cheka weeeeeeee wala hugombwi akkha maana watu wengine wanashangaza kama si kustaajabu acha ampe..mwaga maufundi haya pepeta haya twanga sasa haya..maana next utaomba ushauri umridhisheje mwenzio huko anawaza dolari ngapi zaingia we wawaza yaliyopita kwa usiku mmoja kugeuzwa kisusio toa tundi hilo mpaka uzeeke usipoangalia hehehehehehe Reply | Quote 0   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-28 09:19:26 JAMAA KALA BATA YA CHAP CHAP THEN KAISHIA. YAANI TENA ANGEKUWA ANAMJUA MK KUWA NDO ALIETOA USHAURI, NADHANI ANGEMTAFUTA KUMPA "UJIRA" WAKE. POLE DADA NDO MAISHA SOGEA MBELE NA MENGINEYO SASA. Reply | Quote 1   1

Anonymous   |2010-07-28 09:20:21 USIONE WENZAKO WANAKULA RAHA, UJUE WAMEPITIA NJIA HIZO, UNACHEZEWA KAMA MARA 10 HIVI YA 11 HUENDA IKA-TICK! Reply | Quote 3   0

BE REAL WIT CHA   |2010-07-28 10:42:53 AND HOW OLD IS HE????..........THAT IS THE QUESTION!!! Reply | Quote 1   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-28 16:13:21 And isn't he attached?Or committed rather.. Reply | Quote 1   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-28 10:50:48 thanks people..just a correction though..this person is BLACK!who said only wazungus go to the five star hotels?and in answering the other question no i didnt sleep with him but what we had was more than sleeping with him. Reply | Quote 7   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-28 12:57:55 hhhhhheya mah wacha we kwa hiyo more than sleeping mhhhhh mdadavuo huo full vuvuzela hehehehehehehe mfate huyo aliekupa ushauri akushauri vizuri au katege tena kipenzi safari hii akija mjapani haya twende, mzungu haya achia hiyaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa patamu hapo poyeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Reply | Quote 1   0

kimeo   |2010-07-28 13:21:55 1 .uli lalal nae kama yethi si alikulipa basi kaahivo biashara kwishnei kazi na dawa yaghe Reply | Quote 1   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-28 16:11:02 Bahati yako hiyo dada wewe kaza kamba tu kuwasiliana naye na hata kumpa minofu kwani ndiyo fashion ya siku hizi unaliwa kwanza hadi uchakae ndipo wazungu wakuokote ukale raha. Mkazie buti dada ni siku yako njema wala usikate tamaa. Reply | Quote 0   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-28 18:17:18 hilo nalo neno..gawa tu bidada wala hugombwi kwani unalipia vat au kodi ya kichwa utabaki na harufu tu ya pafyumu wanazopaka wenyewe wanakamata ngoma wanapiga halafu waleeeeee kumbe mwenzao umebaki bado waota....tehetehetehe ota weeeeeeeeeeee ukija kuzinduka ngoma hiyo jioni full mdebwedo Reply | Quote 0   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-28 17:01:18 of all comments hapo juu, lisa ana ubongo unaofanya kazi.tafadhali mdau, dont be too desparate, msikize lisa Reply | Quote 0   1

Anonymous  - re:   |2010-07-28 18:45:28 Anonymous wrote: okay, u still communicate ryt? in that case ask him when his comming down next, say you would love to see him again and if his intrested in you then he will come down either for his busines or to see you and you guys go out for a meal or so, dont rush things, if his into you then just enjoy urselves at the mean time other wise if u go ahead and tell him that u love him? atafikiri wats wrong with this woman, u know try to kinder play hard to get ili akutake even more. And kama umelala nae on night stand then just jitetee kua i loved that night but sorry i was kinder drunk or havent slept with someone as attractive as you are and it was kinder hard to let go of you and shit like(or make something up). GOOD LUCK. been there done that (it helped) aah shost una point sana kula kumi kabsaa, watu wanajidai tu kumrusha roho mwana wa w... Reply | Quote 0   0

Anonymous  - re:   |2010-07-28 18:50:30 Anonymous wrote: thanks people..just a correction though..this person is BLACK!who said only wazungus go to the five star hotels?and in answering the other question no i didnt sleep with him but what we had was more than sleeping with him. baasi huyo atarudi tuu, si ajabu akasema we ndo umfate huko aliko trust me Reply | Quote 0   0

lisa   |2010-07-29 06:58:16 mhh, na akishauri umfate huko aliko then naomba ukatae kijanja and politely..mambo mengine ni bora ufanye kwenye himaya yako kuliko ugenini..simply because U DONT KNOW HIM THAT WELL. kufunga safari kwenda kwenye nchi ambayo maybe hujawahi kufika, humjui mtu, hela mbuzi mfukoni ukimtegemea a weekend dude kuwa yo saviour is highly riskyyyyyyyyy. narudia tena, kama anataka kukuona tena atakuja tu bongo,tena again and again,hata kama anaishi mwezini..trust me on this one. Reply | Quote 0   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-29 09:19:19 yaani lisa una akili wewe mwaah mwaaah mwaaah alaji alaji mbondombondo mbondo yaani hilo uno kama uwanjani nalimwaga especially for you...mwaaaaaah sasambu sasambu hiya hiyaaaaaaaa dada msikilize lisa lisa ohhhoooooo wenzio walijaribu wakaishia kukimbilia balozini japo wapewe tiketi za kurudi usilete michezo na ugenini eti umfuate atakufunyula uzzuri halafu na bill ya vinywaji ulivyoomola usiku mzima uikute counter wakati wa ku check out maana unamkuta mtu yuleeeee kashakisanula ohoooooo chunga mwanawani Reply | Quote 0   0

BE REAL WIT CHA   |2010-07-29 07:12:37 Answer me gyal HOW OL IS DA MAN n you claim you don give booty, Sister me no born yesterday y know. Bombaclattt!!!!!! Reply | Quote 0   1

Anonymous   |2010-07-29 09:21:26 hehehehehehhehe nafwasaaaa uwwiiiiiiii jamani wadau mtampa presha mwenzenu Reply | Quote 0   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-29 07:18:21 ndiom maana yake kwani kumlipia tiketi ili akajibobojolee tundi kazi basi akha mbunye ya bureeeeeeeeeee kama ananawaaaaaaaaaaa poyeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Reply | Quote 0   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-29 07:48:32 Nani kasema ukilala na mtu siku ya kwanza ndio anakuacha...unaonekana cheap???? Si kweli, si wote wanakuona hivyo depends na mtu mwenyewe, mbona mimi nililala na mtu on a first date and he is my husband now and with one kid...and very happy together....the thing is kama haikupangwa muwe pamoja hata mkidate for 10 years haijalishi..... Cha muhimu girls tusiwe so cheap....u can sleep with anyone u like for fun ilas sio ulale nae wit expectation kwamba atakuoa o u'll last long that will torture you if huyo mtu ana hit n run....lol...go gal,if yo kipin in touch endelea at the same time unaendelea na maisha yako...if he was meant for u doesnt matter mlikutana vipi na mlilala lini coz mwanaume kama ana nia ya kukuchezea hata ukimringia siku ya kwanza anaweza kukufuatilia akakukula na akakudump......byeeeeeeeeeee Reply | Quote 4   0

chichi   |2010-07-29 09:17:17 ur are not in love sweety... u felt wanted and u had fun thats all... wewe u just miss him but with time you will get over it. Reply | Quote 0   0

Belin  - busy     |2010-07-30 07:01:25 Kama ulilala nae or not dada sioni Tatizo ila swala la kumwambia mapema naliogopa..mie nilienda sehemu kikazi ooh Gosh wakati napata chakula kaka mmoja anaingiaalikuwa so cool ,kumbe mwenyewe kafikia hotel na begi laki begani niliyofikia kikazi..Jeez..Kaka alikuwa na mvuto wa ukweli was single kwa kipindi kile..mara akatoka then akaja tena..akaniangalia nikamwangalia mara kaja kukaa na mie kaniuliza Mam kuna mtu hapa nikamwambia hayupo..basi kaagiza chakula kala story ,story mwisho tukaondoka kenda kwake kulala nami kwangu saa sita kanigongea Mam niko macho natamani angalau angenikiss kisha kulalal..akakaa tukapiga story saa saba kanisogelea kanikiss ,hata sijui ilikuwaje bahati nzuri ile hotel kuna salama tukala tunda kwa raha zetu.. kesho yako kila mtu na 50 zake ..na ameoa sasa nimeolewa huwa tunacheka tu tukikumbuka. ila wako mmh Reply | Quote 0   0

anony  - re:   |2010-07-31 07:53:02 BE REAL WIT CHA wrote: Answer me gyal HOW OL IS DA MAN n you claim you don give booty, Sister me no born yesterday y know. Bombaclattt!!!!!! His age is not YOUR DAMN BUSINESS!!!!!!!!! Reply | Quote 0   0

Anonymous   |2010-07-31 10:38:05 hey inategemea kama unampenda mwambie ukweli tu (mfano mzuri mie nilikuwa wa kwanza kumwambia mchumba wangu hisia zangu kwamba nampenda na nimefall kwake....mpaka sasa niko nae hatujawahi kugombana na angalia tumebakisha mwezi na nusu tu tunafunga ndoa na ananipenda sana..mpaka nahisi simpi upendo ule ambao anastahili so its depend kama wakwako wakwako tu mamaaaa Reply | Quote 0   0

lisa   |2010-07-31 10:45:54 thank u mdau wa alaji sijui alachi..i love that song..hua nafurahi sana nikiusikiliza.. Reply | Quote 0   0

kiki  - Old is gold   |2010-08-01 02:38:48 Jamani nyie wa dada wakileo mbona mnaacha maadili ya zamani yalikuwa mazuri. Mwache mwanaume akutafute ww shosti. Kuna ule wimbo unasema " When a man loves a woman, He will do anything" including kukutafuta popote ulipo. Mwache akutafute ww, that is the only way utajua sio one night stand. Na kama hajakutafuta mpaka leo shosti weka alama ya kuuliza. Old is Gold jamani ile ya kutafutwa mwanamke ina hishma yake na pia hata ww utajisikia unapendwa. Tulia dada chema chajiuza, kibaya chajitembeza. Mie nilifanya hiyooo ya old style mume ninaye mpaka leo mwaka 14. Shoga Muombe Mungu akushushie wako tulia yu aja. Siunaona akina mama wetu wali hold STD zao ndoa zao zilitulia. Goodluck nakuombea heri na baraka upate wako. Reply | Quote 0   0

abby  - feelings   |2010-08-04 14:10:26 hi there, wat i can tell u my sister is that if u lav someone let him go if he comes back then it was meant to be if not my dia dont regret it wasnt urs for real.. evrything happens 4 a reason lav.. Reply | Quote 0   0

Anonymous   |2010-08-11 14:54:35 keep alive communication btn you....and warning do nt tell him that u love him it was very shot period to be sure that ur in love wit him....so just calm things wil be as they shud be wit time slowly...if u meat to be together u will.... but nw wat i can say is you are in desperate situation and NOT IN LOVE. love takes time to be sure OR to grow to that extent u explained....ALL THE BEST. Reply | Quote 0   0

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