Hi Mange

mi nilikuwa naomba ushauri juu ya huyu mume wa mtu.Huyu mkaka ni kwamba alikuwa anaishi na mkewe huko Mwanza sasa akahama kikazi akaja hapa Dar akamwacha mkewe huko Mwanza anaendela na kazi alipofikisha karibia miezi sita akamwambia mkewe aje kuishi nae hapa mkewe akakataa kabisa sasa yule kaka akaendelea kuishi hapa akawa anaenda au mkewe anakuja wakti wa likizo kumbuka hapo wana mtoto mmoja tu.Sasa huku kazini nikawa nimekutana nae mie na kwa mara ya kwanza sikujua kama ameoa kabisa ila baadae aliniambia na akasema ananipenda sana basi tumeendelea na uhusiano mpaka hivi sasa. Ila sasa yule mkewe kumbe akawa kuna mtu anatoka nae kule Mwanza na mapenzi mazito kiasi kwamba kila mtu mpaka ndugu wa mwanaume wakajua na wakamshauri aachane nae maana anatia aibu sana huko Mwanza basi mkaka akaona hapa ndiyo safi akaniambia kuwa anataka kunioa mie na yuko serious mpaka kaanza kunitambulisha kwa ndugu zake na mkewe kashamwambia hataki.

Sasa nie sijajielewa nikubali hii ndoa au nikatae maana naona inanichanganya sana.

Naomba ushauri kwenye hili na kumbuka mwanaume nampenda pia

Mdau,Martina

Talk show host, Ellen DeGeneres (ni mwanamke) na mke wake Portia

Haya leo, lets discuss a taboo subject , USAGAJI….

Kwanza kuna anaejua hili neno usagaji limeanzia wapi ama limetokea wapi?na kwanini wakaitwa wasagaji?wanasaga nini?? Hahahahhahaha????

Hivi ni kwanini usagaji umepamba moto Dar es Salaam kwa sasa? Ni katika kuwaiga wazungu au ni  kwamba wanaume wetu wanatunyanyasa sana mpaka tunaona bora tuwe na wanawake wenzetu kwenye mapenzi? Au ni katika kutaka kujaribisha mambo tu?? Mambo ya kuwa CURIOUS????

Nimesikia sana sana high school and college students ndio wanaao-experiment sana na haya mambo??

Mdau have u tried it?why did u try it? What did u think of it?

Ellen na Portia siku ya harusi yao

Kwa hapa Tanzania mie naona imekuwa ni rahisi zaidi kwa  wanaume ma-gay kujitoa hadharani than wasagani kujitoa hadharani? Je ni kwanini wasagaji wengi bado wanaona noma kujitoa

Mie mpaka sasa nawajua malesbian wawili tu ambao wao wamejitoa hadharani na hawajali if people judge them, na wao ni hardcore lesbians?yani ni wale ambao wako wako wanaume,wanatembea kiume,wanavaa kiume na wanatongoza mademu kupita wanaume.

Hivi sasa kuna story imeenea mjini kuhusu madada wawili ambao ni warembo mno kwamba walifumwa toilet waki.......
huwa natamani sana kuwauliza wao wameamua kufanya hivyo kwasababu wameboreka au ni kweli wapo -in love, au wamechoka kuwa na wanaume au vipi???yani im really curious, so many questions to ask , ila sijui nitaulizaje without offending anybody or hurting anyone's feelings. Mtihani...

Hivi malesbian wanaweza kuambukizana ukimwi??? Na kama wanaweza kuambukizana ukimwi je ni jinsi gani wanaweza kujikinga wasiambukizane ngoma???

Mie navyoona ni kwamba ni frustrations to za wanaume zinawafanya wanawake waamue kufanya mapenzi na wanawake wake wenzao, na kwa wale ma-lesbian underage mie naona ni mambo ya kuiga uzungu uliopitiliza…wewe unaonaje mdau?

Just read in an American Blog kwamba Kwamba Mel B wa spice girls nae yupo penzini na Leona lewis…

I SAID IT!!

I don’t remember  the last time I disliked a music video this much..

I mean with all the hype over the Gaga/Beyonce Telephone Video, I was expecting something REALLY GOOD, but what a disappointment.

Nyimbo mbaya, Video mbaya…aaarrrhhggg….

The only reason this song is going to be getting some air time is because its Gaga and Beyonce, otherwise ingekuwa imeimbwa na Kina Ciara tusingeusikia tena huu wimbo…lols

THUMBS DOWN…LOL

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Dear Dada Mange

Nimatumaini yangu kuwa umzima wa afya na unaendelea vizuri tu na shughuli zako.

Mimi leo nina masononeko sana kuhusu jambo moja linaloendelea huku masaki. Wizi umekuwa mkubwa sana sio asubuhi, mchana wala usiku. I am one of the witness who has seen these things happen. Ladies have been robbed their bags and purses, bruised etc. but the event that made me write to you is the one that happened yesterday where a bodaboda guy who had carried a passenger from buguruni to masaki was robbed his new motorbike at around 2 in the afternoon.

He had no idea where masaki was so his passenger( who was a thief) was giving him directions. When they got to a street in mlali road near the blue mirrored apartments in masaki, his bike broke down. As he was trying to repair it, his passenger (the thief) was making a call to his collegues to come and meet him there. So after a few minutes some other 2 theives came with a bike and tried to grab the bodaboda driver to give them the keys to his bike. When he tried to resist one of them got a gun and pointed it at him so out of fear for his life he gave them the keys and tried to run. The three thieves started riding so slowly and when they were a bit far the bodaboda driver started shouting for help but it didn’t help him much because with the pace that the thieves were riding no one could suspect that they had stolen the bike. So he ended up losing it.

Please we need the police to be patroling this area of masaki because it has become highly dangerous na inatisha sana. And these theives use nice cars, taxi, and bikes to robe people. I hope that our voices will be heard and we will be given help as soon as possible.

Thanking you

ESSIE….

Last month we lost a brother we were living with Imran Mtui. He was murded, the cut of his head and wrists and threw the remaining body parts at a local railway station. If it wasnt for his watch, clothes and shoes we wouldnt have been able to identify him. Till now we cant even go collect his things from the station because the guys are too busy with other cases to follow it up. We have liased with the embassy about this and in the end nothing really has been done just a bunch of empty promises. All they could tell us is, if you guys werent at home or in your uni's we really cant intervene. Can you imagiine? Two nights ago three of our younger brothers were attacked in their home by some local indians. WHen they opened the door they were attacked with machetties! They were demanding they call their friends back (who had left and were chased by the same indians since they saw africans walking at night and they wanted to run them over for FUN). When they saw the guys were stalling they locked them in the house took petrol poured it all over the house and lit a match. They stood outside waiting so that they cannot come out, and if they did they were told they would be beaten to death. They managed to call the president of TASABA (Tanzanian Student Association) and he came with cops. They managed to push back the angry mob and it gave the kids a chance to get out of the house. So the cops speak to the locals and turn on the tanzanians who were there and start beating them with their sticks, even the guys who were stuck in the fire. Naturally people run to avoid being hit. The kid who's house was torched went to the landlords house for assistance, all the landlord did was tell him to stand outside brought him quarter of his deposit claiming that the rest he needs to repair his house.

Joyce - India

U-turn tunauliza, Ubalozi wa Tanzania huko India unafanya nini kuwasaidia watanzania???

Hi Mangi,

Jaman pole as now itabidi tukuite mama ushauri but ndo hivyo tuvumilie sie wanawake matatizo yetu mengi. Well dia nisaidie to post this in your blog nipate ushauri though i know its not possible kumshauri mtu to choose a partner in life but atleast maoni na ushauri unaweza ukakupanua mawazo na kuona mbali ambapo ulikua huoni. Ni hivi wapenzi, mimi naona nimefikia umri sahihi wa kuingia kwenye marriage atleast i have achieved all that i planned for and now i am ready to settle for it tatizo ni kwamba i have 3 choices in mind na sijui nani nimchague awe mume wangu. Kati ya hawa watatu mmoja ndo nipo kwenye relationship nae tatizo i do not feel him to be my lifetime partner, nadhani nilifanya mistake kumkubali mapema kabla sijajua if realy i was in love!nilikua nimetoka kwenye heartbreak so sikufikiria ila nikamkubali fasta kupunguza machungu japo yeye anaonekana yupo seriously committed to me! Kaka number two hayupo hapa nchini ila anategemea kurudi rasmi next month huyu yeye alinifatilia siku nyingi sana before hata huyu wa kwanza but nikawa namtolea nje then akaondoka nchini tukapoteza mawasiliano. Last year alirudi for likizo fupi akafanya jitihada kuntafuta hatimae akafanikiwa yan kwa hizo siku alizokua hapa tuli enjoy sana na mpaka he managed to convince me kumpenda sasa tatizo yeye hajajijenga kabisa ina maana akirudi i have to give him another two years before he settles down for marriage. Sasa na sie wanawake tunavozeeka haraka si nitakua kizee na mbaya zaidi wanaume hawatabiriki waweza msubiri afu baadae akaingia mitini ukakosa hata wa kukusalimia!!Kaka number 3 yeye yupo tayari kunioa hata kesho, shida ni kwamba i dont trust him maana kuna siku nilipigiwa simu saa kumi na moja alfajiri na mdada through his own phone akinambia jamaa ni wake lakini nilipomuuliza jamaa akakana kabisa nikamuuliza inakuaje basi huyo dada kunipigia simu asubuhi ile tena na simu yake jamaa kama sio kweli walilala wote jamaa bado akawa anakataa baada ya kumbana sana ndo akakubali!nilimnunia for like 4 months without taking his calls or msgs,tatizo alikua anapafahamu kwetu so akawa kila siku anakuja kunivizia home ili aongee namie,akawa anaomba msamaha sanasema iweje Yesu alisamehe 7*70 mie nishindwe kumsamehe?hatimae siku moja nikaone niende nimsikilize tu ndipo aliponambia alikosea na sasa yuko tayari kwenda kunitambulisha kwao na anytime tufunge ndoa. Mtihani upo hapo sasa...wadau naomba ushauri na sio kunizodoa jaman haya mambo yanachanganya mwe!!

Taty.

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DEAR MANGE,

KWANZA NAKUPA HONGERA SANA KWA KUWA MAMA-TO BE. CONGRATULATION MY DEAR.

NAJUA U WILL NOT REGRET KUITWA  MAMA - YOU WILL SEE HOW HAPPY U WILL BE.

LET US COME TO OUR MAIN TALK - MY DEAR EVEN ME WAKATI NILIPOKUWA PREGNANT, MATE YALIKUWA YANASUMBUA MPAKA NILIENDA KUMUONA DOCTOR MAY BE IF THERE IS ANY DAWA TO MEZA LAKINI WAPI. MWISHO I COME OUT WITH ONE SOLUTION - NILINUNUA UBUYU MWEUPE, USIOKUWA NA SUKARI WALA RANGI - HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT I MEAN WITH WORD "UBUYU" THEN NIKAUTIA KATIKA CONTAINER NDOGO  NIKAWEKA CHUMVI, BASI KILA MAHALI NILIPOENDA KIKOPO KILIKUWA NDANI YA POCHI- TUNDA MOJA MOJA  NAKULA IKIISHA UCHUMVI CHUMVI NATEMA, KIKOPO KIKIISHA NAJAZA TENA. AT LAST NIKAJIKUTA NAFIKISHA MIEZI 6 NA MATE YAKAACHA YENYEWE KUJAA MDOMONI. NA BORA IWE NI MATE TU SOMETIMES UTASUMBUKA SANA NA VOMITING AMBAYO HAINA DAWA MPAKA IFIKE MIEZI KADHAA KAMA MIMI KUTAPIKA NILIACHA NIKIWA NA MIEZI 6.

SO DONT WORRY HAYO NI MABADILIKO MADOGO TU YATAISHA LAKINI FAIDA ZAKE NI KUBWA.

MDAU

MAMA ZARINA AU FATMA AMANI

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Hi MK.........

And the award for Most Daring Outfit goes tooooooo... Hilary Swank ....mambo ya Armani hayo..

Mdau

Mama Penelope

Sijui pa kuanzia, but for the past few month I have struggling with excess saliva  on and off…eewww….

Nimejaribu ku-google mpaka nimechoka bado sijapata dawa yake. Hakuna kitu nachokichukia kwenye maisha yangu sasa hivi kama hichi kitu cha kutema tema mate. Its so disgusting,  na kuna wengine huwa wananikata jicho kama wanatamani kunitukana wanashindwa ila nashindwa kujicontrol sio makusudi na kuna siku kuna baba aliniangalia vibaya kidogo nimtukane…hahaha…

Basi nimefikia sehemu kwamba nikiona siku hiyo nashindwa kabisa kujizuia kutema tema mate  basi najifungia ndani siendi kwa mtu wala nini kwa vile najua kuna wengine nawakwaza.

Masikini shoga zangu naona sasa wamezoea tu mpaka hawaoni tena kinyaa, ila inanisaidia kwamba marafiki zangu wengi na wao pia ni wajawazito kwa sasa so they are being understanding as a matter of fact kuna mmoja wa rafiki zangu nayeye na hili tatizo kama langu, that has been comforting to me in  a way...

Anyways, swali langu wadau hivi kuna dawa ya kuweza kunisaidia niache kabisa kutema tema mate kama kibibi kinacholamba ugolo? Au kama wale wasomali wanaokula mirungi? LOL

Swali lingine ni hili, kuna watu nilikuwa naongea nao kuhusu huki swala la kutema mate ovyo mmoja wao (mwanamke) akasema wanawake wa kiafrica tukiwa na mimba tunajiendekeza tu, mara kula udongo, mara kutema tema mate ovyo, mbona wazungu hawatemi mate wakiwa wajawazito?

Mdau, hivi ni kweli wanawake wa kizungu hawatemi temi mate wakiwa na mimba?nime-googgle na nikaona kwamba kuna wanawake wengi  kwenye internet wanaongea swala zima la kutema mate na nimehisi ni wazungu. Wewe unalionaje hili swala?

I know it’s a disgusting topic to discuss but nielimisheni jamani na pia nisaidieni dawa ya kuachana na haya mateso….USISTA DUU WOTE UMENIISHA AISEE…HELLLLPPPP